What causes this common disease (Mental disorder) in western men going to SEA? While I be the 1st to admit I have tried to force relationships to actually work with bargirls. Pounding the square peg in a round hole has you will. I never thought any of the girls I have deal with were any different then any other bargirl I dealt with. I knew what they were and what I was dealing with. I still believe that a relationship with a bargirl can work BUT you have to have a mega amount of Money to maintain and a tolerance that shes going to fuck around on you. You must come to the conclusion that your relationship is based on money but IMO what relationship on this planet is Not???.
I got a friend who no matter what I say about his Girlfriend is convinced that shes a diamond in the ruff and even thou I known him since we was kids thinks what I say is total BS. I can;t stop him from sending money he really don;t have to her and I can;t stop him from stressing out about how he is going to get her here by his side. I already have made up my mind that I going to let him crash into the wall he is heading to at 150 MPH and be there for him when he needs me its coming to that very soon. So I don;t need advice on how to handle this Its settled. What I like to toss out is a discussion among everyone on what do you think causes this Mental disorder that MOST guy seem to suffer from once they get there 1st taste of SEA. Fire away guys