Doing Cebu

[slicky]

Well Slicky is at it again. Up to his lies and fooling around. Come May 25 he is taking Slicky jr on a business trip to Cebu. However I omit the word "Monkey" in front of bisiness trip. I have been to Manila and want to give Cebu a try.
Right now I am focasing on DIA women that live in the Cebu area and have a few who may meet up with me.
I may not be very sucessful, but I will try my hand at malling and coffee shops too. But if that is a bust (pun intended coz slicky loves boobs) I will just walk down Mango a bit and see a physical thearipist for hire at one of the bars. A woman with a lot of money may fly down to Cebu from Manila if she does not have to go on an overseas business trip. I been chatting with her for about 3 years now and I know she has not had any for quite some time, so who knows.
I wil stay at a hotel on the Osmena circle with a pool. Maybe a woman would like to have a dip in the pool with me on a hot day? I may buy her a suit to wear provided she does not displace too much water in the pool.
If you have any suggestion please give me a few.
I will give in return a play by play of Slicky doing Cebu.

[SahinAga]

Don't keep your hopes too high with the malls.Mostly ladyboys and hardened pros on the wrong side of "hardened".Also Mango avenue lacks the vibrant energy of similar joints in Thailand and you have to dig very deep to find a looker.Try basketball court if you want to walk on a bit more dangerous side.But high risk of disease because of common drug usage, and pimps will harrass you non stop.(i did not try that in my time).Karaoke scene mostly targets Korean brothers and nothing to write about.Same ladies, will run to mostly Julianas (or whatever its name is) and Pump after 3 am so you can find good bargains because you dont have to pay for VIP room like in karaoke or barfine (like in bars).Invest more time in dating sites, always have plan b,c,d,e...z.Many of the girls are scammers or full of bs, you can just skip to your next target.Accumulate at least 10 contacts imho.Have a nice and safe trip.

[slicky]

SahinAga
Sincere thanks for your inputs. I cut and pasted them and will read over again and again for sure.
Question since you seem up on the goings on in the naughty world of Cebu. Do you feel a trip to Cebu is worth it?
Street meat is out for me because of all the associated problems I read about. I am sure I will be spending most of my nights at J-Ave(Juliani)
Thanks

[SahinAga]

Cebu does not have too much daytime activities.People socialise in 2-3 shopping malls majorly.Can find good food, but it is pricey comparing to Thailand.I don't know maybe my trips to HK and Macau set my standarts too high, i hardly saw anything i can call "stunner".Mango avenue is like a pale shadow of Nana.Girs swing around at the stage like the zombies in walking dead.People say Cebu is fun with the semi-pro scene and follow the DIA way.Cebu can be considered if you are around, but i won't fly from other side of the world just for Cebu mongering.There are better places.

[babylon81]

Cebu does not have too much daytime activities.People socialise in 2-3 shopping malls majorly.Can find good food, but it is pricey comparing to Thailand.I don't know maybe my trips to HK and Macau set my standarts too high, i hardly saw anything i can call "stunner".Mango avenue is like a pale shadow of Nana.Girs swing around at the stage like the zombies in walking dead.People say Cebu is fun with the semi-pro scene and follow the DIA way.Cebu can be considered if you are around, but i won't fly from other side of the world just for Cebu mongering.There are better places.

As Sahinaga mentioned Cebu has not much mongering action at daytime.But I really dont know your only aim to be in Cebu for mongering,if so I also agree that you can try better destinations in SEA (if not experienced yet).But if you mixed type of trip like having rest at day time or sightseeing+having good nightlife at nights,it can be an alternative.In my opinion its not so much pricey neither in nightlife nor in food or other activities(maybe at most like Thailand).Before you arrive to Cebu,if you have enough time to spend in DIA and other sites as much as you can,I beleive that you can really find good options for semi-pros.
If your concentration in your trip is only for mongering,then you can try different destinations rather than Cebu beforehand.SahinAga, dont you think that HK,Singapore and Macau is a higher standard cities rather than others you mentioned(both nightlife activities,city itself,food,staying and mongering prices)

[slicky]

Slicky here live from Cebu in the Philippines
The general theme of this trip is....."If it were not for bad luck, I would have no luck at all"
flight from Jp was uneventful and everything was fine there
The shuttle between terminals in Manila, sucks. I waited about 15 min for a crappy shuttle bus to take me to the next terminal. Plane out of the gate late (PAL=Plane Always Late) I read this somewhere
Taxing to the runway on PAL and all the sudden all the electrical and lights go off and the plane slows to a stop and we had to be towed and it took about an hour to fix it but the plane was full and no air cond, Shit, not a good start.
Don't take the yellow cab out of the Cebu airport, it's meter starts at 70 and within a block the meter starts a moving, it cost me about 340peso to the Fuente Circle. A wee bit expensive but better than walking. The traffic Jams were everywhere and seemed to take ages to get to the hotel.
Things did go from bad to worse.
First night I went down to J Ave at Mango square. I sat there and have a rare 2 beers and actually feeling the affect. This FL came up to me and we started to chat. Having some wierd vibes about this person, but wanted to see where it goes, I violated the when in doubt there is no doubt rule. Slicky jr was doing the thinking.
OK off to my room. and its shower time
this FL wanted to be paid up front, I refused (I was not opening my safe while this person was in the room period (Only 2 good decision I made) Then the FL wanted the lights dimmed to almost dark. I said no, cause slicky jr wants to see your snatch. The FL would not take off the undies top or bottom. Nice looking tits turned to no tits, OK now the bottom, show me your kitten. pull the undies down but quickly covered with hands. I lightly tried to pull the hand away and got resistance. Then and there I went to put my clothes back on. Have you guessed it yet????? Yes... LB!
I told the guy to get out, and he began to give me shit, I am sure I could take him but will let managemennt fight my battles went right over to the phone and told it to get out. I gave it 140 pesos from my pocket and told the guy to get out. All the time him telling me he is not a LB. By the way, I did ask if he was at Mango and it lied to me. Close call here boys, I violated some rules about doubt and taking street meat of the streets of Cebu.
Next Day
I went for a walk and a swim, Sat and read my National Geo magazine at Robinson mall for a bit of fishing for about 4 hours, not even so much a FL looked at me. I noticed a few other whites on the prowl there. gave that up and went for a walk and had my shoes fix to help give a guy a few moments of work and chance to make some money.
Funny thing, I stopped at McD on Colon. I like the plain hamberger and ordered two of them. And thats what I got. Hamberger meat on bread and nothing else. Be careful of what you ask for...you just might get it.
I arranged a date with a lady on DIA. But this one was a two bagger and did not look like her photo, but being a gentleman I took her to have some cheap italian down the road. When we first met up she told me 15 min ago someone pickpoketed her cell phone, but she sent me a message 5 min before that, go figure. I think she was fishing for some money.
After that, I left her and went back to the hotel and arranged another meeting, Photo on this one matched. She wanted to come over with her cousin. Well... ok if it puts you at ease. I agreed to help her with transportation. Finally she and her cousin (Guy)showed up at about 1AM and we chit chat in front of the hotel then walk over to Bo's coffee for more chit chat. Closing time and we walk back to the hotel enterance and she is wondering if he can come up with us. I tell them olny double occupency, true or not I am not sure but used that excuse. I give the cousin 300 just to get rid of him. Finally he leaves us and the girl and I go up to my room and more chit chat. She tells me how cold she is, but the Aircond was off but gave her a poloshirt to wear. She said she was still cold and I suggested that that I hold her and she fell into my arm willingly. a few mins after I was holding her, we got to kissing, but that lasted only about 10 seconds and she pulled away and asked me why I did that. Funny though, for the first 9 seconds she was into it. It ended up that I showered alone, and slept first while she watched TV, and when she did go to bed, she slept on one side of the king size and I was on the other and a gap between us. When I awoke i wanted her out but she began to watch TV again and never talked with me. I told her twice she could go if she wants. Finally she goes in the bathroom and puts on what she wore, not even take a shower and ask me if she could barrow money to get home, I pointed out I gave her cousin 300 as agreed and the word barrow from the standpoint of most Phils means can I have. I gave her 200 only to get her out of my room. She invited me to visit her area and I lied by telling her I would come on Friday.
If it were not for bad luck, I would have none at all.
I can recommend the Summit Circle Hotel, it is clean, strong Wifi, pool, blah blah blah. definately stay here again at the 3 star prices.2200 peso per night and the buffet is ok. Bring your own tooth brush though
Well on to other DIA possiblities.

[SahinAga]

It s bad because like many of the mongers who lives in the "wrong side of the world" and spend the year planning the trip to the "right side of the world", expectations are quite high and if they are not met, the dissappointment that follows is even worse.With the LB thing, you said yourself.It's a rookie mistake.if there is doubt, there is no doubt exactly.Also buying a drink to the mamasan or the cashiers and asking them to recommend a girl can save trouble.You should go to Julianas after 3 am, where bars and karaoke joints are closed and working ladies come to that club.It will also save you from paying bf.And when dealing with DIA girls Plan A and B is not enough.I say have 10+ prospects in your hands.Because some of them will ask for money even before meeting you, some of them will pull the chaperone game, some won t even show up etc.And about the mall scene, it s overrated.I was only approached by LB s and aunties which were simply horrible.My best advice is, f**k DIA, f**k malling, go to Mango avenue, pick a bar, pick a lady, have some drinks, pay the bar fine (if you can wait after 3 am no need to pay), go to your room and have fun.You pay for the plane ticket and hotel, and using your vacation.There is a thing called opportunity cost.While trying to save some bucks from cheap thrills, you are actually losing money.(tickets and hotel bill).Hope things will go uphill from now for you and you have a good trip.

[phillike]

Slicky here live from Cebu in the Philippines
The general theme of this trip is....."If it were not for bad luck, I would have no luck at all"
flight from Jp was uneventful and everything was fine there
The shuttle between terminals in Manila, sucks. I waited about 15 min for a crappy shuttle bus to take me to the next terminal. Plane out of the gate late (PAL=Plane Always Late) I read this somewhere
Taxing to the runway on PAL and all the sudden all the electrical and lights go off and the plane slows to a stop and we had to be towed and it took about an hour to fix it but the plane was full and no air cond, Shit, not a good start.
Don't take the yellow cab out of the Cebu airport, it's meter starts at 70 and within a block the meter starts a moving, it cost me about 340peso to the Fuente Circle. A wee bit expensive but better than walking. The traffic Jams were everywhere and seemed to take ages to get to the hotel.
Things did go from bad to worse.
First night I went down to J Ave at Mango square. I sat there and have a rare 2 beers and actually feeling the affect. This FL came up to me and we started to chat. Having some wierd vibes about this person, but wanted to see where it goes, I violated the when in doubt there is no doubt rule. Slicky jr was doing the thinking.
OK off to my room. and its shower time
this FL wanted to be paid up front, I refused (I was not opening my safe while this person was in the room period (Only 2 good decision I made) Then the FL wanted the lights dimmed to almost dark. I said no, cause slicky jr wants to see your snatch. The FL would not take off the undies top or bottom. Nice looking tits turned to no tits, OK now the bottom, show me your kitten. pull the undies down but quickly covered with hands. I lightly tried to pull the hand away and got resistance. Then and there I went to put my clothes back on. Have you guessed it yet????? Yes... LB!
I told the guy to get out, and he began to give me shit, I am sure I could take him but will let managemennt fight my battles went right over to the phone and told it to get out. I gave it 140 pesos from my pocket and told the guy to get out. All the time him telling me he is not a LB. By the way, I did ask if he was at Mango and it lied to me. Close call here boys, I violated some rules about doubt and taking street meat of the streets of Cebu.
Next Day
I went for a walk and a swim, Sat and read my National Geo magazine at Robinson mall for a bit of fishing for about 4 hours, not even so much a FL looked at me. I noticed a few other whites on the prowl there. gave that up and went for a walk and had my shoes fix to help give a guy a few moments of work and chance to make some money.
Funny thing, I stopped at McD on Colon. I like the plain hamberger and ordered two of them. And thats what I got. Hamberger meat on bread and nothing else. Be careful of what you ask for...you just might get it.
I arranged a date with a lady on DIA. But this one was a two bagger and did not look like her photo, but being a gentleman I took her to have some cheap italian down the road. When we first met up she told me 15 min ago someone pickpoketed her cell phone, but she sent me a message 5 min before that, go figure. I think she was fishing for some money.
After that, I left her and went back to the hotel and arranged another meeting, Photo on this one matched. She wanted to come over with her cousin. Well... ok if it puts you at ease. I agreed to help her with transportation. Finally she and her cousin (Guy)showed up at about 1AM and we chit chat in front of the hotel then walk over to Bo's coffee for more chit chat. Closing time and we walk back to the hotel enterance and she is wondering if he can come up with us. I tell them olny double occupency, true or not I am not sure but used that excuse. I give the cousin 300 just to get rid of him. Finally he leaves us and the girl and I go up to my room and more chit chat. She tells me how cold she is, but the Aircond was off but gave her a poloshirt to wear. She said she was still cold and I suggested that that I hold her and she fell into my arm willingly. a few mins after I was holding her, we got to kissing, but that lasted only about 10 seconds and she pulled away and asked me why I did that. Funny though, for the first 9 seconds she was into it. It ended up that I showered alone, and slept first while she watched TV, and when she did go to bed, she slept on one side of the king size and I was on the other and a gap between us. When I awoke i wanted her out but she began to watch TV again and never talked with me. I told her twice she could go if she wants. Finally she goes in the bathroom and puts on what she wore, not even take a shower and ask me if she could barrow money to get home, I pointed out I gave her cousin 300 as agreed and the word barrow from the standpoint of most Phils means can I have. I gave her 200 only to get her out of my room. She invited me to visit her area and I lied by telling her I would come on Friday.
If it were not for bad luck, I would have none at all.
I can recommend the Summit Circle Hotel, it is clean, strong Wifi, pool, blah blah blah. definately stay here again at the 3 star prices.2200 peso per night and the buffet is ok. Bring your own tooth brush though
Well on to other DIA possiblities.

First of all your method is all wrong. You seem to think all these girls you meet are perfect ladies with virtue. So you are more than gentlemanly with them.
In mongering you need to tell them point blank what you expect from them which is sex. Do not be too nice wining and dining them till you get intpo their pants and like them.

Sometimes it is hard to tell about ladyboys. There are some who look and act exactly like ladyboys. It is good that you did want to see pussy and realised.

As for DIA girls you should let them know you are interested in sex only. None of the DIA girls I met refused sex although some needed added push. They all play games usually " I am Shy ".
Shy or not once they are in the room within half hour I have done the deed. Depending on that I decide to keep her for long time or ditch her ofcourse with some money.

I never encourage nanny accompaniement. One girl in Manila 19 year old said she does not know how to get to my hotel and need her cousin to come with her. I told her her cousin can come in front of the hotel but only she will be allowed inside. Once in the room everything was good. Naturally young girls are little scared on the first meeting. But if you are gentle with her she will start to trust you and become good GFE.

Cebu is known for non-bargirl action with online contacts with normal girls . In fact I have never picked a freelancer or bargirl in Cebu.

[slicky]

When she said something about taking her cousin up to the room should have set off loader alarm bells. But I was trying to maintain being a gentleman about the whole thing. I beleive I did tell her it was ok to go home.
She actually put on my polo over what she was wearing and laid on the other side of the bed. I stayed on my side and she her's. the kissing deal happened on the so called love seat in the room. She has been contacting me on DIA asking when we can meet again. So far I have not replied. I did not kick out of my room because she seemed to have concerns about her safety at night.

Kicking myself for this LB episode, I am glad it did not progress further in room. But I learned a few valuable lessons though



My Sunday
I went down to read again at the Bo's Cafe. basically the same deal as the day before. A DIA contact came by but was so shy and nontalkative, it ended quickly. It was sort of one way converstaion, and I was doing all the talking. After that she wrote back to me on DIA and said I was the first she ever met and very shy. Well I hope the best for her. I liked her because she did not have a ton of war paint on or the flashy type. Perhaps she was using me to tackle her affliction to being shy? She did not want anything to drink nor let me pay for her transport.

Things are looking up
I went to maverick today and had a beer and a coke just to get the feel of the place. Many of the girls there not really my type, but it was a good experience though.
I headed to J Ave at about midnight and hooked up with a couple of girls out having a good time. The one I talked to and danced with the most had a great set of boobs , full figured (Slight chubb but not fat, I like them this way) and was a lot of fun too. We ended up going back to my hotel for a super intensive freebie. She was 27 and worked at a supermarket somewhere. Nice to do a nonpro, and I had to ease in at first very slowly. I used a glove when doing her, but she was very careful and non trusting of it. I had to show her that it did not leak (Yuk). While on the dance floor with her, I had a hard on and luckly was able to cover it up with loose clothing.
The music is way too loud in that J Ave, Even my guts were vibrating from the sound system. I wonder how the help can stand that day in and day out. Lot of employee turnover there?

I have other DIA girls waiting now, today one is going to show me Cebu.

[southguy99]

I am planing my 3rd trip to cebu and I have plenty of fun without going to mango square. bt the time I go home i am sooo fucked out i am happy for 6 months. ALL my girls i met on DIA you just have to know how to pick them and tell them in advance I am not flying around the world to hope the first girl works out. I have good friends waiting for me when i come back. sure i lost some but there is always the sister, not kidding, they want the money to keep comeing. Easy pickups are TGI and massage palors. Richmond Hotel is near most of the rub spots. And if you did some reading you would have known to get a cab that just arrived at the airpot, never use hotel cab, walk down the street to get a cab dont use the cab stand at hotel or airport. Always ask DIA girls for more pics if she isnt skinny in dia pic she looks like a whale in her real pics if she isnt that cute in dia pic she is a downright dog in her real pics and also DIA girls are famous for putting pic of asian moviestar for there profile pics. It helps to have a friend that is married to a phill to bounce a few pics to.

[slicky]

I made a little video of how things went on my trip
You can see it here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sq1t1iFmsv0 The video really tells alot about my trip.
I read the post and developed relationships and met many of the women. Combination of bad luck and bad choices in women to meet.
I was more interested in trying to stay out of Mango and finding non-pros via DIA. One girl was so simple minded that all she wanted was the chocolate bar I promised her and she came in pouring rain to pick it up@ because I refused to meet her. But a promise is a promise, just be careful about making them. Most the DIA women had so little to talk about that in 20 min, we had nothing more to say and the erie silence took over. I then made an excuse to leave due to work. I count 7 women who were like that. So DIA was a bust for me in that respect.


Well I geuss I am getting old now and must pay to play, but was able to pull a freebie with big tits out of J Ave. That place was so loud it kept me away. Even my inners vibrated. Plenty of street meat and bars to find a lady for a price though.
I did a lot of trolling in Ayala and Friday and Saturday night seems to be the night to be there. But I was looking for dinner, treat them nice and have a drink blah blah blah. and then back to my place. I was not looking to pay. Therefore it did not go well for me.
I had a threesome that was p4p with a 21 year old who was really cute, and a 24 year old on friday night. Argueable the best 3 some I ever had but not super. I always had bad luck with threesomes
The Summit Circle hotel is a good clean hotel for the price and can recommend it
Sure I made some mistakes but Cebu was my first time.

[simmer]

Always ask DIA girls for more pics if she isnt skinny in dia pic she looks like a whale in her real pics if she isnt that cute in dia pic she is a downright dog in her real pics and also DIA girls are famous for putting pic of asian moviestar for there profile pics. It helps to have a friend that is married to a phill to bounce a few pics to.

Talking very generally rather than PI/DIA, I've previously asked girls to do a certain pose, hold up three fingers, or hand write a sign in the picture, just to show it's real and up-to-date. Might seem a bit tacky but genuine girls don't mind.

Thanks for the pic!

[woodyfl]

Talking very generally rather than PI/DIA, I've previously asked girls to do a certain pose, hold up three fingers, or hand write a sign in the picture, just to show it's real and up-to-date. Might seem a bit tacky but genuine girls don't mind.

Thanks for the pic!

If anyone is still meeting filipinas in 2012 without seeing them first in a webcam they are out of their mind and asking for trouble. Sure pics are nice but only after you have verified thier identity in a webcam. And the same is true with youself. No matter how old and homely and misshappen you are, its best to let them see you as well, just the fact that you are a foriegner makes you more attractive than you are to begin with so don't worry.

When they say oh this cafe doesnt have cams or oh mine is broke sorry its all bullshit and they are hiding something. If upon the second time we chat they still dont have a cam. Then I just move on and refuse to chat until they turn on a cam.

Every filipina with the wherewithal to contact you by the net has access to a webcam. Every town has a cafe with internet and cams. Internet connections are very expensive relatively per month so any home which can afford a computer and pay the monthly fee can afford a cheap webcam.

Pics are absolutely worthless information until you have confirmed her identity in real time chat. Mostly its gays but also its much older and beastlier females who try to pull that crap. I can't believe anyone would actually meet someone from another country based on a pic only like its 1992. I have met dozens and dozens and everyone i saw on a cam first and i have never met one who I was shocked to see in real.

[mrnicenslow]

If anyone is still meeting filipinas in 2012 without seeing them first in a webcam they are out of their mind and asking for trouble. Sure pics are nice but only after you have verified thier identity in a webcam. And the same is true with youself. No matter how old and homely and misshappen you are, its best to let them see you as well, just the fact that you are a foriegner makes you more attractive than you are to begin with so don't worry.

When they say oh this cafe doesnt have cams or oh mine is broke sorry its all bullshit and they are hiding something. If upon the second time we chat they still dont have a cam. Then I just move on and refuse to chat until they turn on a cam.

Every filipina with the wherewithal to contact you by the net has access to a webcam. Every town has a cafe with internet and cams. Internet connections are very expensive relatively per month so any home which can afford a computer and pay the monthly fee can afford a cheap webcam.

Pics are absolutely worthless information until you have confirmed her identity in real time chat. Mostly its gays but also its much older and beastlier females who try to pull that crap. I can't believe anyone would actually meet someone from another country based on a pic only like its 1992. I have met dozens and dozens and everyone i saw on a cam first and i have never met one who I was shocked to see in real.

I completely agree with woodyfl. Once in Manila, i called a lady with whom I had chatted a few times (including a webcam chat once). I really got shocked seeing her in real. I even asked if she is the one i saw in cam. I took her for dinner and said I have severe headache and meet again later. It is better to be sure before meeting them.

[phillike]

I completely agree with woodyfl. Once in Manila, i called a lady with whom I had chatted a few times (including a webcam chat once). I really got shocked seeing her in real. I even asked if she is the one i saw in cam. I took her for dinner and said I have severe headache and meet again later. It is better to be sure before meeting them.

Some internet places especially in the privinces charge for cam. Also they do not have am on every computer. But before meeting any girl atleast she should show herself one time min.
I have met girls in my room without seeing them on can before but was not dissappointed. Sometimes girls look better in person than cam or picture.
One perticular girl had her facebook pic bordering ugly. Pleasantly surprised when I met her. Her face was ordinary but her body was a killer with big books, small ass and extremely tight pussy.
So since we looking for sex face alone does not tell the real story. I never meet them outside of my room mainly because If there is no sex it does not matter how gorgeous she is.