Is it a good idea to plan my entire trip to the Philippines around the girls that I met from DateinAsia?
Last edited by americanthief; 03-31-2012 at 06:32 AM.
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I wouldn´t do it.
DIA is one thing and the real girls are another thing.
I once built great expectations on a Philippine girl working in HK and according to the DIA she looked like a hot prospect and was quite open.
But when I actually met her, I found, that she was much younger, than I had understood via DIA and she was very shy.
I wasted a 3/4 day on her and we never even came close to bed.
Damage was minimal just a brunch in a hotel and a room-reservation for 80 HK$ and the wated time, because she wasn´t even an interesting person to talk to or to listen to.
Now I just do my trip (wherever) and take on the opportunities, that open themselves while I am there.
Thief, I tought you would be seasoned enough. In fact, I was a bit astonished by your question.
Greetings and good luck,
Concerned
Ubi pus, ibi evacua!
The things you have to ask yourself is are you the type of guy buying on the basis of looking at the pictures or you like to buy after seeing the product?Originally Posted by americanthief
When you go to a bar you are presented with girls you can pick and choose although sexual satisfaction is a toss up. There is no way to know except the actual looks how the girl will get into your expectations and desires. This is called chemistry between two individuals. When it works it is great. In the case of bargirl both of you know it is one night or part of the night and can forget each other after that.
Now let us talk about chatmates from whichever site. Chat has been done, cam pictures are shown, arrangements have been made to meet. So far so good because no money is spent ( Thanks to Al Gore invention of Free internet- just kidding ) Next is the actual meeting. I have exclusively stayed away from bargirls for the last 6 years instead relying on chatmates. There are simple procedures to follow. Make sure the girl comes alone to meet you. Make sure while chatting she agrees to have sex with you. Do not agree for long term stay. Although this is not easy if the girl has travelled far to meet you. Never discuss money compensation. Yes, all girls in Phi ask for gifts. Take whatever you can afford.
Let us talk about bad things first. Girl maybe underage can be the biggest problem. There is no way to verify the age in spite of her I.D. Even the schoold records do not reflect actua age. Parents routineluy give falso date of birth, sometimes showing the girl older which will help in getting jobs. This is the one thing I found out in Phil, employers want to hire older girls only unlike the west who want to hire younger people. Most often nothing happens if you are with a underage girl but when things happen it can be severe.
Secondly the girl demands lots of money. Most province girls are good . They think even 500 pesos is lot of money. It is the city girls or girls with advisors like an aunt or friend who will demand. You just put your foot down on this saying it ia all you have and later will send money. you know what later means-never.
Thirdly the girl suddenly becomes starfish. Do not like sex, watches tv, pm with her friends all the time etc. Nothing you can do. Just be nice and do not put down the rules. Moment you get a chance kick her out.
Finally the girl and you have no chemistry at all- Kick her out moment you get a chance.
Let us talk about good things. Of all the forty or so chatmates I have met maybe 5% was negative. None scammed me and we left on good terms. Ofcourse I always buy gifts and give money. Rest of the 95% are extremely good. Much better than bargirls. It is cheaper also. I have kept many on long time relationships. Have taked trips and it is a bliss.
Bottom line there is nothing compares to fresh pussy. Most are very poor ( that is why they agreed to meet me anyway ) but well appreciative and fun to be with.
NO!!!! Once you get there you will find so many really nice girls all over. As many have said department stores are really great and they always bring friends so you will have alot of fun just doing that. On the 3rd day then you can start to decide which on you will invest your time in. I just got back and was there to bring my fiancee over but that did not stop girls from asking if I was single and I am 58. must have been asked that question 5 times a day by nice looking girls.
I posted for another member. I hope he reads this and understands what I've been trying to say all along. Its a bad idea.
Thank you for all the comments.
Seduction Specialist
Boy I must be ugly
I was never asked if I was married or anything by these girls. You sure about 5 times?
"How can I kiss those lips that have been chewing my ass all day?"
Lewis Black
Boy I must be ugly
I was never asked if I was married or anything by these girls. You sure about 5 times?
"How can I kiss those lips that have been chewing my ass all day?"
Lewis Black
How did you meet your fiance? and where were you in Phil this last trip ?
Seduction Specialist
I met few girls from DIA and usually i have good experiences. But i text with them long time and we talk about all. No about money, bu about trip, sex etc. They told me, that love me. Maybe it wasnt true, but i felt very good - nice face, nice body, perfect sex
DIA girl or bargirl are expensive similar. Because DIA girl is your "girlfriend" and u will have to buy some for her.
So i think all have some advantages and disandvantages. So when i am in philippines i am usually one part of my trip with one DIA girl. and few days i am in Angeles and have every day new bargirl :-)
Setting up "dates" with DIA girls is like
Having sand brought to meet you at the beach
WHY??? There are 1000's of girls in angeles, manila, subic and so on. Do you really need to prearrange on the internet?
I refuse to use DIA. and now i will not date a regular girl in angeles. i am on holiday and have no time for dating. i am here to fuck, drink, sleep and eat.
I date at home and put in the time to fuck a girl. Not when I am on vacation.
good advice from philike.
for me i discard all the dates from any chatsites b it dia/filipina cupid, the reasons are as follows:
1. u cant build chemistry with a girl over the net/webcam/skyp/fb/twitter
2. u cant verify the truthfulness of all the things/stories she says, ie any evidence to back up what she claims? did u see it for yourself? the answer is no.
all in all being emotional can actually destroys u in all aspects.
this is true if you can totally detach yourself and treat the girls respecfully as disposable temporary objects.
Unfortunately alot of us cant and thus look for more complicated relationships which involve money and time and getting to know them as female humans. Your advice is good if applicable, but not always due to the nature of what the man is looking for.
But your view is certainly the most prudent if it can be followed
The question, IMHO, isn't only "emotional" or "as disposeable objects"; as "emotional" still offers a rather wide spectrum of emotions.
Speaking for myself - I do tend to get emotional, but my emotions are limited to "being fond of" , "liking" etc - not "desperately falling head over heels".
That's the emotional state that serves me the best - and the main reason why I always prefer LT (often with extended GFE) over ST (even if prof. PSE)
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