GF in Shenzhen -what do you think about it?

[logiznam]

Hi ,

Two months ago I've been in Shenzhen , visiting for the firs time the company
that we have already business relations since 2 years. The sales assistant
who was responsible rof business relations with me (let's name her Alice)
is so beautifull, gentle and inteligent person. She's 28 , I'm 20 years older.
What I know , she's single , no hubby or BF at the moment.

During my visit there have been established between us a very friendly
relations. A few nice evenings , talking about everything (almost) but
nothing has happened between us - you know what I mean. However ,
I wanted to , but I was to shy to make any proposals.

She told me during my visit that within few days she will not serve me as
a sales assistant bacause she has found another job. Pitty , I said to myselve. Anyway , we still have a contact by email EVERDAY (private).

On August , I go to China again. I've called her and I said that I would like
to invite her for a weekend to Macau. She said , OK.

Anyway , I still don't know how to behave as I will meet her.
What could I expect? Give me advice please.
In Europe , I wouldn't have such a problem.

Regards ,

Logiznam

[mogog]

Hi ,

Two months ago I've been in Shenzhen , visiting for the firs time the company
that we have already business relations since 2 years. The sales assistant
who was responsible rof business relations with me (let's name her Alice)
is so beautifull, gentle and inteligent person. She's 28 , I'm 20 years older.
What I know , she's single , no hubby or BF at the moment.

During my visit there have been established between us a very friendly
relations. A few nice evenings , talking about everything (almost) but
nothing has happened between us - you know what I mean. However ,
I wanted to , but I was to shy to make any proposals.

She told me during my visit that within few days she will not serve me as
a sales assistant bacause she has found another job. Pitty , I said to myselve. Anyway , we still have a contact by email EVERDAY (private).

On August , I go to China again. I've called her and I said that I would like
to invite her for a weekend to Macau. She said , OK.

Anyway , I still don't know how to behave as I will meet her.
What could I expect? Give me advice please.
In Europe , I wouldn't have such a problem.

Regards ,

Logiznam

just treat her like any other female. to tell u the truth if nothing has happened yet its not looking too good.

better get to it before u become a "friend".

[Mr. David]

Hi ,

Two months ago I've been in Shenzhen , visiting for the firs time the company
that we have already business relations since 2 years. The sales assistant
who was responsible rof business relations with me (let's name her Alice)
is so beautifull, gentle and inteligent person. She's 28 , I'm 20 years older.
What I know , she's single , no hubby or BF at the moment.

During my visit there have been established between us a very friendly
relations. A few nice evenings , talking about everything (almost) but
nothing has happened between us - you know what I mean. However ,
I wanted to , but I was to shy to make any proposals.

She told me during my visit that within few days she will not serve me as
a sales assistant bacause she has found another job. Pitty , I said to myselve. Anyway , we still have a contact by email EVERDAY (private).

On August , I go to China again. I've called her and I said that I would like
to invite her for a weekend to Macau. She said , OK.

Anyway , I still don't know how to behave as I will meet her.
What could I expect? Give me advice please.
In Europe , I wouldn't have such a problem.

Regards ,

Logiznam

Take her out on 3 dates and if she doesn't put out then kick her ass out! Do you want to have sex with her or start a relationship? Long distance relationships never work out.

[logiznam]

Of course sex only. I agree with you that a long distance relationhip couldn't work. Anyway , thanks for your advice.

[alc1118]

Logiz, the girl agreeing to go to Macau with you for the weekend is a good sign. I had a similar situation and did the following: Test her by casually mentioning in your next email if it will be ok if both of you stay in the same room and share the same bed. Tell her you will stay on you side but (in a joking way) tell her not to get mad if during the night you roll over and hug her in your sleep. If reply, "don't worry" or gets more suggestive, then you are good to go. Lastly, be a gentleman (to a degree) at first so as to have her feel like a slut.

[logiznam]

Lastly, be a gentleman (to a degree) at first so as to have her feel like a slut.

Of course , I treate her with a very big respect. And in fact , thats the reason why I have opened this thread. I understand , there are (I think so)
a cultural differences between Europeans and Asians and I simply don't want to make her feel like a slut. But of course I don't want to be kicked off.
In Europe for instance , it's not a problem. It often happens that girls are making first step. Making the test you've suggested , yeah good idea.
However , I'm affraid mentioning in the email about staying in the same room
(even in a joking way) could make her feel , I treate her as a slut.
Maybe I should simply improvise on place?! Anyway , thks for your advice.

[Mr. David]

Of course , I treate her with a very big respect. And in fact , thats the reason why I have opened this thread. I understand , there are (I think so)
a cultural differences between Europeans and Asians and I simply don't want to make her feel like a slut. But of course I don't want to be kicked off.
In Europe for instance , it's not a problem. It often happens that girls are making first step. Making the test you've suggested , yeah good idea.
However , I'm affraid mentioning in the email about staying in the same room
(even in a joking way) could make her feel , I treate her as a slut.
Maybe I should simply improvise on place?! Anyway , thks for your advice.

Logiznam - You said you just want to have sex with her....dude, you're in Shenzhen! Why the hell do you want to waste your time and money trying to have sex with an old dried up (probably virgin and boring in the sack) 28 year old women? There's hundreds of young pretty Chinese pussy in Shenzhen!

Most women have already decided whether she's going to have sex with you or not in the first 5 minutes of meeting her. So, we know that you worked with her for quite a long time and in my opinion most likely she's not going to have sex with you but what she'll do is treat you like an ATM machine like a bank!

She agreed to go with you to Macau because you're paying for everything....free hotel acommodation, free dinner, free this free that!). She's an opportunist and uses men for their money. I wouldn't be surprised that after the trip to Macau with you and not putting out after you've spend alot of money wining and dining her...all you're going to get from her is a fuckin' thank you and maybe a kiss on the cheek Good luck with her. If i were you i'm backing out.

[logiznam]

Logiznam - You said you just want to have sex with her....dude, you're in Shenzhen! Why the hell do you want to waste your time and money trying to have sex with an old dried up (probably virgin and boring in the sack) 28 year old women? There's hundreds of young pretty Chinese pussy in Shenzhen!

Hi Mr. David ,

Yeah , you could be wright. You've mentioned about other possibilities in Shenzhen. In fact , there is a lot of pretty young chicks over there.

But who is who? Someone walking down the street , smomeone sitting
in a hotel lobby? What should I avoid in order not to be scamed?
Another problem is the language. Not so many people speak english there.

I've found the escort agency :

http://www.escort-china.net/shenzhen.htm

Are this prices acceptable or should I negotiate? I'd be glad to hear your opinion about it.

Regards

[chief668]

[QUOTE= Why the hell do you want to waste your time and money trying to have sex with an old dried up (probably virgin and boring in the sack) 28 year old women? There's hundreds of young pretty Chinese pussy in Shenzhen! [/QUOTE]
Yeah, I agree w/ you. If just want to have sex. Why waste time? Just go get one. Nothing is free anyway. Pay and out and hurt no one!

[logiznam]

Yeah, I agree w/ you. If just want to have sex. Why waste time? Just go get one. Nothing is free anyway. Pay and out and hurt no one!

What a brutal you are!! No sence of a romantic feeling !!

OK , just kidding. Well , during my last visit in Shenzhen I was extremely
busy. Returning back from the fairs to my hotel , I was tired like a 'dead
rat'. Any advices where and how can I get p4p in Shenzhen?
I'll be there again August/September.

Thks in advance

[Mr. David]

What a brutal you are!! No sence of a romantic feeling !!

OK , just kidding. Well , during my last visit in Shenzhen I was extremely
busy. Returning back from the fairs to my hotel , I was tired like a 'dead
rat'. Any advices where and how can I get p4p in Shenzhen?
I'll be there again August/September.

Thks in advance

I'll be there also in September. I can speak some Mandarin and Cantonese and i already have 3 girlfriends waiting for me at Queen's Spa...they all work for Queens Most Chinese people in Shenzhen can't speak basic English. If you're Caucasian then you'll have problems with negotiating with the mamsans. I know a place where you can get a pretty good massage and a handjob and the girls there are young and beautiful. What dates in September? Are you from Krakow, Poland?

[logiznam]

I'll be there also in September. I can speak some Mandarin and Cantonese and i already have 3 girlfriends waiting for me at Queen's Spa...they all work for Queens Most Chinese people in Shenzhen can't speak basic English. If you're Caucasian then you'll have problems with negotiating with the mamsans. I know a place where you can get a pretty good massage and a handjob and the girls there are young and beautiful. What dates in September? Are you from Krakow, Poland?

No , I'm not Caucasian. European , so I hope there shell be no problem
to negotiaye with mamasan. I'm not from Krakow but its quite close to a place of my residence. Just about 50 miles away. The exact date of my flight
is still unknown but I thing I'll be there just after Olympic games.
Maybe we could meet? Let me know..

Regards

[Mr. David]

No , I'm not Caucasian. European , so I hope there shell be no problem
to negotiaye with mamasan. I'm not from Krakow but its quite close to a place of my residence. Just about 50 miles away. The exact date of my flight
is still unknown but I thing I'll be there just after Olympic games.
Maybe we could meet? Let me know..

Regards

When you know the exact dates pm me.

[logiznam]

When you know the exact dates pm me.

OK. I'll let you know.

Regards

[phillike]

This girl wanted to be my GF in shenzhen.
Nice 18 year old with killer stand up boobs.
Very tall girl.