weird thing that happened to me

[Nightswings]

HEy, i was at the sunflower spa in sf, or i think it was dragon spa...anyways, it was on O'Farrell near the big hotels there, and I went in and got me this sexy Chinese lady named Anna. SHe was in her 30's and very hot. Well, we did our thing, and I hadnt gotten laid in quite a while so i was really nice to her, sweet and gentle, cause i liked her. I didnt bang her but she did give me a bareback BJ and throat fucking which i asked for and gave her 200 for an hour. I know, very generous but I liked her. Anyways, the question that I have been working towards asking is the following:

at the end of the session, she gave me her phone number. I thought "why the heck is she giving me her number? what does this mean? is it for dating, or is it for business, like when a drug dealer gives you his number?

I thought, well maybe she wants to date me. I was flattered, but then again, she is a hustler and who knows what kind of mafia she is involved. So i never called her.

I went back two weeks later and she recognized me but this time she was kinda mean. She mentioned that she thought this tick that i have with my eye -which makes my eyelid close in irregular patterns, like im winking at people, believe it or not- was caused by crack cocaine! She thought i was a crack head! then she said she didnt recall giving me her phone number.

I think she was upset that i didnt call her, and I thought "well, maybe she thinks i dont call her cause she is a hooker"..and to be honest, that is why i didnt call her.

So what do you guys think? its the first time a hooker gives me her phone number. My logic tells me that it was for business, but i have read a lot of posts here -which may be lies or truths- about guys claiming they are dating the hookers from the massage parlors.

Did i miss my chance at some free hot asian chick? Tell me what you think, please,
Thanks for reading the post. By giving me your opinion, whether this has happened to you or not, will enlighten me.

Thanks bros

[americanthief]

I've never got a phone number. Man it sounds like she really liked you. Even massage girls want a boyfriend. Why didn't you call ?

I think you missed your chance.

[Nightswings]

because shes a prostitute and then i didnt want to be involved, possibly in a serious way, with someone who has to put up with -what seems to me- a very depressing, at times dehumanizing and abusive job. What if she is one of them slaves and shit and i get a case of captain save a hoe syndrome and decide to do something about it? would i want to fight mobsters for a woman? would i feel compelled to buy her freedom? Those are all possibilities that i know i would feel very strongly about pursuing. Even thinking about them is insane and makes me feel like a coward.

more importantly, I would no longer be able to see her as a sex worker; i would see her as a person and then her state would be something i wouldnt be able to ignore, even if she said she was ok doing it.

I went to this one place in Berkeley. the ladies are cute and reasonable. I forgot the name. Good luck finding it. Its near blake and shattuck, right next to this white garage and infront of this one car dealership. Near the Reel VIdeo area. Advertises itself as an acupuncture spot. Small white metal fence door. No cards accepted, which is weird because the SF AMPs i have been to take plastic. Next stop is oakland AMPs.

[americanthief]

Damn dude,
Its up to you and your gut feeling and I guess that's the way you read the situation. So you did the right thing.

I guess I was lucky to have a great relationship with a working girl, actually 2. One girl worked for Heidi Fliess back in the 1990s. and one girl was a Japanese porn star. They both always had money and took real good care of me financially and sexually. Sure they had some issues, most girls in the sex biz do, but it was so worth it.

In the end, you have to do what you think is right and don't look back.

That place in Berkeley. Is it on Shattuck Ave ???

[Vergamin]

i have gotten numbers from a couple of girls before, and yes the girls who do that are unusually sweet. in my case they just wanted a 'regular' because they didnt want to put up with meeting strangers everynight. if you seem nice and they feel confortable with you, they might just offer it to you
btw, ive never called them.
i think you did the right thing by not calling her. seems to me that you were looking for more of a personal relationship as opposed to a business one.
people get hurt taht way!