Age Gap/Cultural Differences

[Ham Yai]

Should an active 70 year old man be denied an 18 year old girl?
What is a comfortable age gap between the sexes?
Is it about maturity?
Is a Thai girl in her Teens, 20's,30's or 40's going to improve the chances of a more stable relationship?
Is it about stable relationships?
A biological fact?
What about other countries girls?
eg .. Russians/Filopinos,and Thais/Others compared to Europeans/Americans and Others.
Is Social Isolation the greatest disease in the world today?
Look at the ever increasing number of the unattached/single mothers
Or is it just that we are all victims of modern society?
Is their a migratory urge?
Is the grass greener on the other side?
Or are we just Greedy and Selfish?

[rocky1838]

Should an active 70 year old man be denied an 18 year old girl?
What is a comfortable age gap between the sexes?
Is it about maturity?
Is a Thai girl in her Teens, 20's,30's or 40's going to improve the chances of a more stable relationship?
Is it about stable relationships?
A biological fact?
What about other countries girls?
eg .. Russians/Filopinos,and Thais/Others compared to Europeans/Americans and Others.
Is Social Isolation the greatest disease in the world today?
Look at the ever increasing number of the unattached/single mothers
Or is it just that we are all victims of modern society?
Is their a migratory urge?
Is the grass greener on the other side?
Or are we just Greedy and Selfish?

Yes and no is the answer.

First question...Do you mean sex or a relationship? if sex, well, the girl is only going to do it for money, she wont enjoy it and the experience will be one sided.
If you mean relationship...forget it.

Age gap?? depends. In Thailand the girls consider anyone over 50 to be old. They call most 50+ Pappa.
10-15 years max for Thailand. If you want a relationship. Anything else is sugar Daddy stuff.
A 70 year old Man should be looking for a 50+ Thai Lady. Never mind hookers, look for educated single Women.

Thai teens...forget it. Generally the older the better. But you are against an Alien cultire. Not easy.

Depends what the person wants. Stability or fun.

Other Countries? who knows. I know one thing. Big age gaps don't work anywhere. Younger girls want younger Guys.
They might stay for big money, but never expect any love or genuine fondness.

We are not greedy or selfish. We come from a sexually repressed Country. Sadly, people in their later years are just beginning to find out there's more to life than collecting the pension and going down the old Mans club.

[gummibaer]

Yes and no is the answer.......We are not greedy or selfish. We come from a sexually repressed Country. Sadly, people in their later years are just beginning to find out there's more to life than collecting the pension and going down the old Mans club.

The age gap is much less a problem in Asia than in 'sexually repressed' Anglo/Euro culture. In Thailand old age is revered for wisdom and experience. I'm 65 and never had a problem hooking up with 'good' girls from <20 to 30.

Of couse physical attraction is much less important there than in the hyped up Western Youth and Beauty culture. As long as you are healthy, virile and mentally sharp, with no bad habits, Thai girls will search you out and find you. The best target group is professional women >25 who missed out on teenage dating and marriage because they went for an education instead. Now Thai men don't want them: too old and too smart and too independent.

Actually, if you play it right you don't have to support them, they'll support YOU! I married a 27 y o to a Thai MBA and lived free in her 5-room suburban BKK home for 5 years, while working a corporate job. Her sisters cooked for me. All I did in return was some handiman projects around the house and trying to teach them English and German. She insisted to pay her own way to everything including our trip back to California.

She divorced me a few years ago on good terms because she could not get pregnant from me (actually she is barren but her fortune teller said it was my DNA!).

I had similar experiences in Bali, where two 25 y o girls were courting me, one a local Deva princess.

Divorcees and widows are also good targets.

Now I'm looking again by advertising in Thai matchmaking websites and get very good response, even though I put in "must have own income".

So don't be shy, go for the young ones, that's how Mother Nature wants it.
Remember Goethe, Picasso, Chaplin, Woody Allen et al!

[gummibaer]

Should an active 70 year old man be denied an 18 year old girl?....

Should an active 70 year old man be denied an 18 year old girl?
NO!

What is a comfortable age gap between the sexes?
Up to you, I had <18 y o courting me, but found them a bit too juvenile.

Is it about maturity?
Yes. I asked one "Why you like older man?"
She said, wise beyond her age: "Young man, I don't know how he will become: alcoholic, drug addict, gambler, violent. Old man will not change any more."

Is a Thai girl in her Teens, 20's,30's or 40's going to improve the chances of a more stable relationship?
Personally I like 25-35.

Is it about stable relationships?
Yes, older man "no butterfly" (They think)

A biological fact?
Yes, older women are no longer child bearing, so Mother Nature wants us to mate with pre-menopausal females.

What about other countries girls?
eg .. Russians are like Euros /
Filipinas seem to be more like Thais but Christian (big difference, they worship a skinny, handsome Jesus, Buddhists a jolly, fat, older Buddha), and Thais (see above)
Others compared to Europeans/Americans
Forget them!
and Others
Only other race I know well is Mexicans: sorry they fail my tests.

Is Social Isolation the greatest disease in the world today?
Yes

Look at the ever increasing number of the unattached/single mothers
Rescue them!

Or is it just that we are all victims of modern society?
We are perpetrators and victims at the same time.

Is their a migratory urge?
Yes, it's called 'Wanderlust' in German, the opposite of 'Heimweh': home sickness. For me it comes in cycles.

Is the grass greener on the other side?
No

Or are we just Greedy and Selfish?
Yes and why not, we deserve it after a life of work, sacrifice and hardship.

Note: "Swami Guru" (great wise man) is what my 25 yo Balinese princess called me habitually. Ever have any Western bitch express such respect?

[rocky1838]

The age gap is much less a problem in Asia than in 'sexually repressed' Anglo/Euro culture. In Thailand old age is revered for wisdom and experience. I'm 65 and never had a problem hooking up with 'good' girls from <20 to 30.

Of couse physical attraction is much less important there than in the hyped up Western Youth and Beauty culture. As long as you are healthy, virile and mentally sharp, with no bad habits, Thai girls will search you out and find you. The best target group is professional women >25 who missed out on teenage dating and marriage because they went for an education instead. Now Thai men don't want them: too old and too smart and too independent.

Actually, if you play it right you don't have to support them, they'll support YOU! I married a 27 y o to a Thai MBA and lived free in her 5-room suburban BKK home for 5 years, while working a corporate job. Her sisters cooked for me. All I did in return was some handiman projects around the house and trying to teach them English and German. She insisted to pay her own way to everything including our trip back to California.

She divorced me a few years ago on good terms because she could not get pregnant from me (actually she is barren but her fortune teller said it was my DNA!).

I had similar experiences in Bali, where two 25 y o girls were courting me, one a local Deva princess.

Divorcees and widows are also good targets.

Now I'm looking again by advertising in Thai matchmaking websites and get very good response, even though I put in "must have own income".

So don't be shy, go for the young ones, that's how Mother Nature wants it.
Remember Goethe, Picasso, Chaplin, Woody Allen et al!

Sorry...I can't buy any of that. Age is very important. They only stay with much older Men because of the size of their wallet.

No love or affection in it at all.

That's why the older men are getting completely ignored now. They really want the young Guys but sometimes they want big money instead.

A 70 year old Man with an 18 year old girl is perverted and would draw gasps of disapproval, even in Thailand at the moment.

[Ham Yai]

I agree with some of both comments but want to point out that with "single" mothers you have to support two or more and some poor bugger may have paid through the nose for a divorcein Western society.(Always worth checking that out before getting in too deeply)Single may mean divorced or separated and we boys should watch out for these "women of fortune".Women with children get it all. The law is an ASS and I submit that the children have rights and entitlements equally to the mother but it doesn't work like that in most cases. The ex wife gets the lot.Sheer greed.

When I see a 70 yr old with an 18 yr old I think lucky bugger. On this note I remind you that you only live once and cannot take your money with you.Thailand should offer the careful pensioner the opportunity to get care in exchange for alot less than a "home" in the West would cost.And what care!! A long slow fuck in the morning and a soft and sensuous body massage in the afternoon to revive and stimulate all areas and be put to sleep.

No! age IS unimportant. It is the continuing service that is.If and when she gets tired of you just "change the oil"

Keep it simple and the money secure.

[rocky1838]

No! age IS unimportant. It is the continuing service that is.If and when she gets tired of you just "change the oil"

Keep it simple and the money secure.

Time will prove to you, that's the hardest part in LOS.

[jaybird]

I browse the online Thai personals from time to time and I always see young, attractive Thai girls who are looking for a man even up to 70 years old! In fact, here's one message I just came across from a 19-year old. I attached her photo as well.

About Me:
I'm beautyful girl. I like to travel around Thailand.

I am interested in Music.

About You:
I'm looking for a kind man. Who can take care me all the time. Someone who can love me and married with me. I don't want play game I want true love.

Some of the qualities I am looking for in a man are that you should be between the age of 30 and 70. I am mainly looking for possibly marriage.

[rocky1838]

I browse the online Thai personals from time to time and I always see young, attractive Thai girls who are looking for a man even up to 70 years old! In fact, here's one message I just came across from a 19-year old. I attached her photo as well.

About Me:
I'm beautyful girl. I like to travel around Thailand.

I am interested in Music.

About You:
I'm looking for a kind man. Who can take care me all the time. Someone who can love me and married with me. I don't want play game I want true love.

Some of the qualities I am looking for in a man are that you should be between the age of 30 and 70. I am mainly looking for possibly marriage.

You have to look closely at the message. "take care me all the time" = take care me and my Family.

She is willing to sleep with a 70 year old Man for one reason and one reason alone...money all the time. Care = Money for every fuckin thing.

And let's be honest...when he croaks, she will get the lot if they Marry.

People should really get a grip and grow up for fuck sake. 70 years, go get a 50 year old. Still young enough to be their Daughter.

[Ham Yai]

Rocky 1838.

My contact replies that there is no adapted car he knows of.
Sometimes a pickup taxi can be almost as cheap.
But I expect you know that.

Looking forward to gaining that "time" you refer to.
How much "time"should it take?
Problems at home appear to be resolving themselves.
Which will give me the chance to really have a look round.

How much do you know of the "up country" hilly areas Sakhon Nakhon, Pak Chong Chai or the Chiang Mai region.Prefer the hills.
Where are you staying now?

[Ham Yai]

Should an active 70 year old man be denied an 18 year old girl?
NO!

What is a comfortable age gap between the sexes?
Up to you, I had <18 y o courting me, but found them a bit too juvenile.

Is it about maturity?
Yes. I asked one "Why you like older man?"
She said, wise beyond her age: "Young man, I don't know how he will become: alcoholic, drug addict, gambler, violent. Old man will not change any more."

Is a Thai girl in her Teens, 20's,30's or 40's going to improve the chances of a more stable relationship?
Personally I like 25-35.

Is it about stable relationships?
Yes, older man "no butterfly" (They think)

A biological fact?
Yes, older women are no longer child bearing, so Mother Nature wants us to mate with pre-menopausal females.

What about other countries girls?
eg .. Russians are like Euros /
Filipinas seem to be more like Thais but Christian (big difference, they worship a skinny, handsome Jesus, Buddhists a jolly, fat, older Buddha), and Thais (see above)
Others compared to Europeans/Americans
Forget them!
and Others
Only other race I know well is Mexicans: sorry they fail my tests.

Is Social Isolation the greatest disease in the world today?
Yes

Look at the ever increasing number of the unattached/single mothers
Rescue them!

Or is it just that we are all victims of modern society?
We are perpetrators and victims at the same time.

Is their a migratory urge?
Yes, it's called 'Wanderlust' in German, the opposite of 'Heimweh': home sickness. For me it comes in cycles.

Is the grass greener on the other side?
No

Or are we just Greedy and Selfish?
Yes and why not, we deserve it after a life of work, sacrifice and hardship.

Note: "Swami Guru" (great wise man) is what my 25 yo Balinese princess called me habitually. Ever have any Western bitch express such respect?

Gummebaer
Right on the button
Couldn't agree with you more

[rocky1838]

Rocky 1838.

My contact replies that there is no adapted car he knows of.
Sometimes a pickup taxi can be almost as cheap.
But I expect you know that.

Looking forward to gaining that "time" you refer to.
How much "time"should it take?
Problems at home appear to be resolving themselves.
Which will give me the chance to really have a look round.

How much do you know of the "up country" hilly areas Sakhon Nakhon, Pak Chong Chai or the Chiang Mai region.Prefer the hills.
Where are you staying now?

Tony, I have lost the plot! What adapted car?

You said this...

No! age IS unimportant. It is the continuing service that is.If and when she gets tired of you just "change the oil"

Keep it simple and the money secure.

Time will prove to you it's all about money. Keeping your money secure will prove more difficult than it appears.
They set you up for the long big sting. Your a prime candidate.

Age is unimportant if you say bye bye the next morning. You want a girlfriend then age is very important.

[Ham Yai]

Rock1838

Its my memory again
I thought it was you who was looking for an adapted car in LOS.
If not apologies.

On the money front. We are all gullible but I do not throw mine away.
I do not have a different girl every night or expensive nights out.
I like quality and value the good things of life which I can afford.
I am travelling business class Uzbekistan Airlines on Tuesday for £806 return and I think that answers your worries about me. To be honest I think I am too tight,thats maybe why my last dipped her hand into my wallet at night. I wasn't paying the going rate.
How about you?

[rocky1838]

Rock1838

Its my memory again
I thought it was you who was looking for an adapted car in LOS.
If not apologies.

On the money front. We are all gullible but I do not throw mine away.
I do not have a different girl every night or expensive nights out.
I like quality and value the good things of life which I can afford.
I am travelling business class Uzbekistan Airlines on Tuesday for £806 return and I think that answers your worries about me. To be honest I think I am too tight,thats maybe why my last dipped her hand into my wallet at night. I wasn't paying the going rate.
How about you?

Not me Tony. But if you mean an apapted car for a disabled person then they do exist. I did a visa run with a disabled chap and he had His car converted to allow him to drive.
Whether you can rent one?

No, nothing wrong with being tight in Thailand. You have to be absolutely ruthless with money and keep track on where every baht goes.

I am the Worlds worst Tony. I hate paying the going rate I always haggle.
Most night I went out with 6000 baht in my pocket but no way was the girl getting any more than 1000-1500 I would rather drink the 6000 baht than spoil them.

As I have said in previous posts. When my girlfriend lives with me I don't give her any Monthly allowance. If I spend 1000 baht a Month on t-shirts she might get the same.
She learned long ago not to ask for money. When she's out with me she has to drink cheap draught...nothing else.

And if she comes to the UK she has agreed to sign a pre-nuptial (in English and Thai) she gets nothing if she walks.

I'm not stupid regarding Thais and I hate to see people who have worked all their life get shafted.

Keep an eye on your wallet and don't believe any of the bullshit...cause that's all it is most of the time.

[Ham Yai]

Rocky 1838

I've been giving some thought to the question of how much money is reasonable to persuade a girl to give up "work" and "care" for me. I know it depends on her circumstances but 99% send money home to children and parents. I know of girls with their own businesses and no children too but they still support their parents.(By "work" I don't mean open prostitutes. I know all about men's rights and women's wrongs).

Every new find has to be wooed and that does cost but I think 10000bht per month is max for a girl that you want around 100% of the time, but do not want to marry.Thats about £1750 per year at today's rate. There will always be the perks but if you can make an agreement to begin with,and stick to it,you find how much "care" is worth.

Of course the steady girl wants you to marry her and she may string along for a while or just become "contented".

As I said before the one who was getting that sort of money dipped her hand in to my wallet. She took 1000bht at a time and got the order of the boot. I hear she's regretting it now.Could be missing the "big boy"too.

I know you are not into the "stable relationship"scene but I can't do one night stands at my delicate age for long. Occasionally though, the butterfly in me escapes and I think that goes for many 90 day visa runners too.