Code of Ethics

[Slickdickdog]

Would anyone like to contribute to the code of ethics for "Mongers". It could be a fun/serious look at the hobby from a new perspective.
I'll start off with one that swells my scrotum.
1)A Monger should not use the terms slut, bitch, cunt, scum or any similar derogatory term to refer to the girls that bring us pleasure. These girls may be poor for the most part and some even desparate but they are still people and deserve a little kindness and respect. Every experienced monger knows that when you show them a little respect they usually show you a much better time.
Can you blame them ?
Please make your contribution weather funny or serious to the Mongers code of ethics.

[Leatherneck82]

Thumbs up Slickdickdog! You got my support in starting a Code of Ethics for the fellow mongers out there who need to apply them and remind them why we enjoy our Hobby. We join this Forum or Board to trade info, make friends and respect the girls who provide the service to all of us.

So here I will add my grain of salt:

2) Please Note - persons interested in illegal activities, including under age girls and drugs, are not welcome. Regular normal horny gents, yes.

3) No information on illegal activities should never be discuss among fellow Mongers,those activities are not part of our lifestyle; apart from the occasional warnings and such.

4) A fellow monger is not into sadistic activities.

5) A true Monger will help fellow tourists Mongers enjoy even more the lifestyle of Mongering around the world.

6) The poor girls have their needs and we are the ones to satisfy them, bless our souls. The Monger has his needs too, and the lovely girls satisfies them, bless their kindly souls. Mutual respect for services rendered.

7) A Monger respect a Host Countries - We remain sensitive to local traditions and customs and obey the laws of the host country, whilst enjoying to the full, the nightlife facilities they so kindly provide.

8) A monger is a Gentleman first and foremost. Will not use derogatory terms when talking about a Girl at any time..

9) Accepted Monger Terms are: Lady of the Night, Girls, Lady and Woman. Bunnies - a new term is quite acceptable, (Term generated from the Club Bunny Ranch in AC).

If anyone has any more to add do so.

[Slickdickdog]

You are the fuckin man Leather ! All Class !!!
I might also add that a fellow Monger:
10) Should not do stupid shit to cause price inflation in the hobby. Negotiate whenever possible, pay the required fee, and show your generosity in the tip if warranted. Juicy tips between you and the working girl are more likely to remain confidential between the two of you.
The monger gets quality babes and quality service and the babe gets a little extra off the books.
Again a win/win situation.

[C_Bass]

please define "monger"

is it the same as a john?

[Leatherneck82]

C_Bass,

It just ocurred to me the meaning of a Monger. I may be wrong it has happened before but a Monger is:

"A Monger is the opposite of a Tourist in vision and scope. The tourist goes overseas to check out the Mountains, Scenery, Historic sites, takes non carnal pictures, and the such, whereas the Monger goes overseas looking for young legal of age women, who ply the trade of Prostitution and of those women who are readily available to you who not only ply the trade but love to have a sexual encounter with you.

The Monger doesn't have a lot of time for 'tours' to historic areas and all that - to him is a waste of time, but he always finds time for Bargirls, freelancers and non-bargirls.......provided the price is right.

Being the honourable gentlemen that we are, A Monger prefer to pay for a lay. As all experienced Mongers know - the advantages of paying far outweighs the disadvantages of not paying at all.

The difference between sex for money and sex for free, is that sex for free costs much more." Whoever thought of that one was the wisest man of all them all and he showed us the real key to a Monger life.

Anyone who would like to add to this, is welcome to add his thought of the Definition of a Monger.

[Leatherneck82]

Here is another one that I been pondering about for a while and after quite a few incidents about the actions taken by my fellow mongers and I thought about adding this one up. We need some sort of ethics. To keep us in check. The host countries will view us differently and will not see us as a threat to their society.

11. A Monger will treat with respect and decency to another Monger and this should extend to his Companion or Lady for the evening, too. There will be another day when she will be free from todays or that night obligations.

12. A Monger should learn to discern the differences between a Bargirl - who is in for the money and a Lady who is not by any means a Pro - one that is not looking for sex at all and is happily married. Not every girls walking on the street is looking for Sex.

13. A Monger should show the girls respect at all times. They don't like to be view as a piece of meat.

14. When a girl say "NO" it really means "NO". Don't push the issue unless you wish to be charge for rape or by other charges brought to you by the girl at the police station. You will see the rest of your vacation behind bars with some bread and water to go too.

15. A Monger should refrain himself from entering into illegal activities or from using illegal substances such as drugs. In most host countries such illegal activities are not treated lightly.

I will make some commends about some of the points brought here later. Specially one about something that happen to a good friend of mine from my college days. Till then, Have fun fellow Mongers.

[polspe]

How about the following :-

16. A monger will not spread false information with regards to the going rate!!!! The lowest figure a monger may have got away with in the dim and distant past, is not valid as a going rate.

[Slickdickdog]

Good one polspe,
no need to ruin the moment by trying to negotiate on faulty information while one's dick is hard and ready to fire.

[crusin]

I totally agree with every point that has been made here especially the points made concerning the "illegal activities".

[Leatherneck82]

I ressurected this thread started by my fellow friend and monger Slickdickdog - for whom I have the utmost respect - from the depths of this forum. Is good to see that many have read it and hope that many will find it useful. Only problem is the lack of feedback but every little bit contributed by others in this thread, help all of us when we go about our mongering expeditions. All of us care for our hobby and hate to see it being damage by ill repute and have the host countries close their open doors to us when problems seem to arise in our own playground. If we don't keep ourselves in check then who will. Thanks guys for helping keep our hobby alive and healthy!

[Slickdickdog]

Well said my friend, and likewise I have the utmost respect and friendship for you Bro. What makes this dicussion more germain than ever could be, as some percieve, the changes to the hobby that may not be so desireable. Potential government crackdowns in Thai and the Phils, worldwide investigations into the world of human slavery and trafficicking, all are sublte
indicators that our hobby is subject to negative evolution. All the more reason to participate in discussions such as these to help preserve what has been up to now, a world of paradise for the monger.
Good life-Good love