Japan Pick Up

[timmya]

I will be in Tokyo for about 4 days before my wife joins me and I would like to accomplish a fantasy that is to pick up a Japanese business women for a one night stand. Not a pro but a classy women looking for the same thing. I am quite shy and do not speak the language but a few words. Where do I go and how do I approach them? Please let me know any tips or info how I do this! Offer classy dinner rsturant etc.?

[winner]

Hey Timmya,

The name of the game in the pick up scene in Japan is aggression. You have to be very aggressive and can't be shy waiting for a woman to talk to you.

Take the initiative, ask for a phone number, call her the next day and ask for a date, take her to a classy place, get her drunk, ask if she wants to go back to your hotel room. If she says yes you are in.

You will get shot down 9 of 10 times so don't take the rejection personnaly, it's all part of the game.

Happy hunting

[franck]

Yes, you are right, in Japan "agressivity" with Women is the key to success .
But can you recommand any particular location in Tokyo where "Japanese house-wives" hang out in search of action ????

[Wwanderer]

Originally posted by franck
can you recommand any particular location in Tokyo where "Japanese house-wives" hang out in search of action ????

Japanese house-wives don't hang out anywhere that you can go, but single Japanese "office ladies" hang out in bars and discos in Roppongi when they want to get laid by an exotic gaijin (foreign) man. Shibuya would be the second choice, I think, but it is easiest just to stick with Roppongi places. (It is in Tokyo. In Osaka and Kyoto there are pubs called The Pig & Whistle that might be worth a try, but I am not really sure what the best place would be in those cities...no idea elsewhere in Japan.) There are a couple of specific bars in Roppongi that are particularly famous for Japanese women looking for western guys, but the names escape me at the moment.

-Ww

[franck]

Thanks and noted.

Franck

[Slick1960]

Try Gaspanic Bar in Roppongi first. It's often packed.

[Wwanderer]

Originally posted by Slick1960
Try Gaspanic Bar in Roppongi first.

Gas Panic is a chain, btw. There are several around town.

Anyway, I checked my notes. In addition to GP, places in Roppongi that can be good for pickups include Velfare, Motown, Propaganda and Trading Places. The latter is good in nice weather because it is semi-outdoor, across the street from the ROI Building. The last time I was there the place seemed to be full of cute women working in investment businesses. I don't know if it is their usual hangout or if it was just the place they landed that particular night. About half of them, maybe a third...not to exaggerate, seemed determined to get laid though. Why don't we have bars like that in the US?

-Ww

[ontheroadagain]

I've been living in Japan for about 3 years now.Its a great country to live in for a myriad of reasons,the first and most almighty of which I have to say,is the teeming number of delectable hotties.Though it took a bit of adjusting to,2 years to be precise,though thats factoring in time taken to get a good grip on the language,the methods for getting those panties down dont differ that much from our home countries.
As has been mentioned in this thread, being forward and if you like,aggressive,is the key. Often they're just waiting for you to talk to them.Even with broken english,they'll usually beam back at you,and enthusiastically cobble together enough of a conversation to get you through to the vital stage.I have even known some girls to take the lead,just walk over and start chatting.Rare,but really refreshing, gyaku nanpa is their playful term for it.
As for age, most girls I've asked dont care too much.Traditionally,men have younger lovers and mistresses,often with a 10 or 20 year age gap. Im 30 now,so if I stay here for a long time,or come back when Im grey,there should still be action to be had.
For now though,Im stoked to be in a country with so many light hearted, lascivious little cuties all around. And with so much cultural richness,culinary goodness and natural beauty,not many mongers would regret a sojourn in Nippon..