Going to Pattaya with my Girlfriend!

[bryllyant]

Hi there,
I really like this forum and find it very informative. I am heading for Pattaya with my Girlfriend (No Thai lady) in September and I was wondering if Thai Bar Ladys are up for threesomes. My girlfriend would like to try a threesome and the very thought just makes me horny. Have any of you guys had experience in this ? Maybe you know places , bars ,clubs etc. I have done an extensive search on the net but have found nothing covering this subject.

Cheers in advance.

[Unplaced]

Hi there,
I really like this forum and find it very informative. I am heading for Pattaya with my Girlfriend (No Thai lady) in September and I was wondering if Thai Bar Ladys are up for threesomes. My girlfriend would like to try a threesome and the very thought just makes me horny. Have any of you guys had experience in this ? Maybe you know places , bars ,clubs etc. I have done an extensive search on the net but have found nothing covering this subject.

Cheers in advance.

My best advice for you is to just shop around. This kind of thing is always up to the individual woman in question.

If you don't want to ask each woman, you can ask the mamasan which ladies might be up for this.

Just go to the bars, see someone you like, and simply ask her. If you tell the mamasan you want to buy a ladydrink for a certain lady, she might already know what the deal is. She'll either say yes or politely turn you down.

This is Pattaya. Dont be afraid to ask.

[jerboa]

KP and myself met a english couple last week In Pattaya. They seemed to have some success In and around Soi6, though I doubt you will get much success down In walking st. As the girls are to spoilt now.

[Jimmy Red Cab]

Rocky speaks very highly of Soi 6, failing that you could always have a look in Hell Club, read Rocky's report on post number 60 -----------


http://www.worldsexguide.com/forum/showthread.php?t=38670&page=4

[Steve German]

Sorry Bryllyant; this will be the worsest decision in your whole life; in my time
i met 2 couples; i saw the men frustrated faces very day at the pool/beach.
One of them i met one year later; alone in Pattaya............

[Keen_Punter]

Soi 6 is where it is at for threesomes.

Rocky struggled, but that is because the girls were apprehensive about a Thai lady.

As Jerboa said, I met an English couple who had no problems finding girls.

[numerouuno]

Hi there,
I really like this forum and find it very informative. I am heading for Pattaya with my Girlfriend (No Thai lady) in September and I was wondering if Thai Bar Ladys are up for threesomes. My girlfriend would like to try a threesome and the very thought just makes me horny.
A piece of warning: when a woman says that, she usually means two guys with her.

Not to worry though, there are heaps upon heaps of ladybois around as well, so go ahead.

[rocky1838]

Soi 6 is where it is at for threesomes.

Rocky struggled, but that is because the girls were apprehensive about a Thai lady.

As Jerboa said, I met an English couple who had no problems finding girls.

Yes, I think He will find it quite easy if He just goes around the go-go's and asks the Mamasangs.

Whether the girl will split early or live up to Her promises is another thing though.

They will get a decent foursome in the Hell club. It is good value for a couple.

[Montydog]

The Hell Club may be a bit full on if it’s her first time but guaranteed as others have said.

There are some genuine girls out there who like going with couples and are not just “gay for pay” and asking the mamasan in the bar or club is a good way forward if your unsure how to approach it.

Then there is the KP “pimping for couples” service that he was running this last trip. :D

[mike456123]

Hi there,
I really like this forum and find it very informative. I am heading for Pattaya with my Girlfriend (No Thai lady) in September and I was wondering if Thai Bar Ladys are up for threesomes. My girlfriend would like to try a threesome and the very thought just makes me horny. Have any of you guys had experience in this ? Maybe you know places , bars ,clubs etc. I have done an extensive search on the net but have found nothing covering this subject.

Cheers in advance.
No problem, you can easily find women for your woman everywhere. Only problem is there are so many choices everywhere.

In other words, do you pick this woman or that in choosing someone from each club or bar you visit? Or do you go to the next place to look around some more.

But even that problem has the fun of shopping and meeting various women, unless you are so horny you are frustrated. If so, then choose somebody quick, have a good time and then go back out and shop around some more.

Some times when shopping for myself, I have seen couples playing with various bargirls or go-go dancers. Sometimes the woman gets so turned on she is soon kissing, fingering or licking or receiving the same. Most times tourist couples are too shy to do.

Sexual activity between female tourists and the bargirls is welcomed in just about any enclosed bar or go-go club as it is extra entertainment for the customers. It is welcomed to a more limited extent and for shorter times in open air bars.

However some of the newer younger bargirls aren't into it yet, but even they will go along with some touching and feeling though may not agree to be barfined and go to your hotel. Besides, if a few don't go along, they will move away and other bar women will quickly come to play.

Rarely will the mamasan stop the action, but if so, go next door to the next bar or go-go club.

In addition to bringing one's own girlfriend or spouse, it is fun to take a new friend one meets in Thailand, to some of the clubs and have her play with the women in the bars. One can do that even with a women one has just met by buying drinks and playing with her and her co-workers.

Of course the more one plays in the bars, the more drinks and tips one has to give. So those on a tight budget, should simply talk to the women who come by and arrange to take one back to your hotel to avoid buying drinks and partying in the bar. To quickly get some off your back who want to sit with you, ask them to invite another women that interests you to come see you. You may have to buy a drink for your choice, but usually you can quickly tell her what you want and barfine her without buying a drink. And if she says no, which is rare, you aren't out any money and don't need to buy her a drink.

The more bars one visits, the more drinks one has to buy, so on a budget, one has to focus on walking in, looking around quickly to see if their might be several women of interest and then walking out, n o matter how many ladies or doormen may pressure you to sit down. Keep moving as they walk with you, circle the bar or dance floor looking both to the center and along the walls. If you don't see anything of interest, eventually walk out after making the circle. Go slow, but don't stop for long. This will save you a lot of boredom and of course the price of a drink.

Under some stress, one will sometimes make mistakes and sit down and order a drink and soon see there aren't anyone there at the moment that interests. Okay, you made a mistake, be gentle, relax, take a sip or two of your drink and focus on where do you want to go next and what will you do when you walk into explore the next club so this doesn't happen again. Then call for the bill/check and pay it including at least 20 baht tip.

So your mistake under stress at worst costs you for a drink about $2.80 to $3.50 plus tip making it a loss of $3.25 to $3.80. Big deal and simply a cost of searching for better deals. If you can remember to ask and then simply order the special for a draft glass of beer, then your mistake will only cost around $2 including 20 baht tip.

But try to relax and rest for some minutes while telling the bargirls no for when they offer company. Occasionally some will seem to harass you so much that your best defense is simply tell them, please bring me the bill/check.

Use the above advice to protect yourself and minimize the minor expenses and aggravations that will happen.

More important, look after yourself so you don't get jerked around by your feelings when sometimes things don't go very well or you make mistakes. It really isn't a big deal and in a night, you probably can't lose more than $10 to $15 for your mistakes or for getting persuaded to try stuff that wasn't what you wanted.

However you can spend a lot more if you start buying drinks for many, after all at $3 per drink times 15 to 30 equals $45 to $90 plus add tips. then add tips for the women with you and the dancers for another $50 to $80 and soon one has spent over $100 in about an hour. Hey, a lot of fun can be had for a hundred dollars, but tis best to not get too carried away as costs can rise quickly. This fun can be extended for another $100 and then another $100.

But how often and how much does one really want to spend and for how long?

Tis fun, but to party sometimes, I recommend finding an open air bar where there are a few women one is attracted to. there you can have a party and perhaps spend a couple of hundred, but it won't get too expensive for you and you can put a limit on the costs you have to pay with the bar owner.
Others will have to pay for drinks and barfines.

So much more I can write, but hope this is enough for now,

Mike









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[pita123]

Same issue here but we are looking for both FFM and MMF fun. Starting to look at Pattaya over Phuket.

Great post mike456123 but I'd say that it isn't really related to couples. It is sound advice for anyone visiting the bars.

[jeremy]

Hi there,
I really like this forum and find it very informative. I am heading for Pattaya with my Girlfriend (No Thai lady) in September and I was wondering if Thai Bar Ladys are up for threesomes. My girlfriend would like to try a threesome and the very thought just makes me horny. Have any of you guys had experience in this ? Maybe you know places , bars ,clubs etc. I have done an extensive search on the net but have found nothing covering this subject.

Cheers in advance.

Ummmm, this can be found, but you'll have to ask around a bit. A bar girl at Highway 66 on Soi 6 was supposed to meet a friend of mine but never showed up one night or showed up late. Anyway, these two American lesbians popped in and payed 4000 bhat for a 3some which she couldn't resist. So, you will probably have to go out together, sort of make it known, be willing to pay a little more (start at 2000 bhat) and let your GF choose.

[pita123]

Just get out in the bars and clubs and tell your Gf to flirt> The girls will find her.

Umm... farang mia luang. :)

[ottoparts]

Saw her go with a Farang couple 1 month ago....she may be gone by now but I done seen it!!!! And she is pretty hot!!! Good luck/Chok di!

[ftudjman]

Wetnwild your husband is one lucky man! Cheers to you guys for making this work in your relationship. I hope you guys have a great trip to Thailand.

Don't forget to post your experiences for the rest of us mortals.

[bigusdicus]

You will not have a problem, believe me! I am a true bisexual and my husband and I have visited Pattaya several times in the past and we have never had a problem. My husband and I have an amazing sexual relationship and we are both comfortable with ourselves, and each other. That said though I would offer you a few words of advice, from a women to a man, before going there:

Thai women are generally beautiful. They are small, brown, sweet, smiling and charming. Multiply that by 4000 of them and dress them skimpily and you have on your hands a western woman who will start to have doubts, regardless of what she says. It is hard, believe me. My husband is a red blooded man like you and I can't expect him not to look - that would be unhuman and stupid - hell, I admire them so I can't expect him not to! And so we communicated and together found some comfortable rules ie, the 12 second rule (he can stare for 12 seconds but then has to pull away at which time he can go back) and no kissing (something has to be left for our relationship). We also pick the girl/s TOGETHER. Not he one night or me another but together as a couple. Just talk to your gi'rlfriend and I would suggest you type in Pattaya in youtube so she can see what it is like. ALOT of women say they can handle it, can't, get the shits, upset their partners and as Steve German said the guys are miserable (as the woman are also).

Just talk.

Numerouuno - I think you will find that the couple going to Thailand on this thread would have communicated about this freely to establish the exact gender of the third party. Your statement is simply idiotic and not worthy of any further comment.


Bry - The above is some of the more intelligent advice you will receive.


Numerouuno, go stand in the corner!

[pita123]

wetnwild, great advice! The only way anything works when a couple is involved is lots of communication. Last year we were in Bangkok at Soi Cowboy and NEP and picked up. And yes, either of us can veto. For me the most important thing is that she has fun. So I'll let her decide which girls she wants to join us. When talking couples it also ends up her deciding. If she isn't having fun I sure as hell am not going to have any fun.

ALOT of women say they can handle it, can't, get the shits, upset their partners and as Steve German said the guys are miserable (as the woman are also).

wetnwild, would you say that your advice is specific about the magnitude of Pattaya?

[pita123]

As for the magnitude if you are meaning numbers then I meant to type in 40,000 not 4,000. Don't know if that is what you meant.

Even better. But what I meant is would you assume that the female counterpart of a couple who feels comfortable and titillated in Bangkok would feel pretty much the same in Pattaya or is the scale of what is going on in Pattaya something that is likely to turn them off?